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TO READ · 10/02/2013

Literary Rx: National Velvet

“I don’t like people,” said Velvet.

“… I only like horses.”

And there you have it.

“I don’t like people,” said Velvet.

“… I only like horses.”

And there you have it.

Thanks to our friends at Flat Vernacular for the excellent backdrops behind these titles.

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TO READ · 09/30/2013

Books We Love: A Map of Tulsa

You might feel the desire to wallow in summer nostalgia and romance as fall makes its appearance. Enable those feelings with Ben Lytal’s debut novel, A Map of Tulsa, an ode to earnest youth and Midwestern beauty.
It’s Jim Praley’s first summer back from his prestigious East Coast university, and his hometown of Tulsa seems cloaked …

You might feel the desire to wallow in summer nostalgia and romance as fall makes its appearance. Enable those feelings with Ben Lytal’s debut novel, A Map of Tulsa, an ode to earnest youth and Midwestern beauty.

It’s Jim Praley’s first summer back from his prestigious East Coast university, and his hometown of Tulsa seems cloaked in a new cast of mystery. When he meets Adrienne Booker, a glamorous high school dropout, Jim’s vacation suddenly takes on a significant shape.

We spoke with Ben about W.H. Auden, road trips, and an extensive reading syllabus.

The protagonist Jim is a poet. Did you read a lot of poetry while working on the book? If A Map of Tulsa were to be accompanied by a single poem, which would it be?

I read a little poetry all the time. Don’t we all?

When I was first drafting the book I found a poem by Auden called “A Summer Night.” A circle of colleagues—professors, maybe—are sitting out on the grass late after a picnic. It’s a moment of respite and contentment such as Jim never feels. I’ve never really felt it either. We don’t have peace like this, because we don’t have real jobs—full time, with benefits. The poem was written in 1933: World War II is coming, and the poet knows it. But Auden still has the strength and the standing to reach out and hold his share of the summer evening.

Here’s the crucial stanza:

That later we, though parted then,

May still recall these evenings when

Fear gave his watch no look;

The lion griefs loped from the shade

And on our knees their muzzles laid,

And Death put down his book.

 

And then Auden runs on:

Now north and south and east and west

Those I love lie down to rest . . .

 

You’re from Tulsa, and the book is clearly a love letter to the city, but we’re wondering: did anyone from your past come forward, offended or irked by things you wrote?

The short answer is: not really. The problems are more with me.  I spent such a long time with the book, I forgot it has some parallels with real life. I literally forgot: One time in Brooklyn, I was coming up from the subway, and it dawned on me that a certain scene I was working on had actually happened to me once (it involved smuggling whiskey into a Borders book store). I stopped on the stairs there and checked over my memory. The written scene had basically obliterated, or overwritten, the real memory. And so it happens that I decided to delete that scene.

What advice would you give a young person coming home from college for that first summer?

Try to see yourself through your parents’ eyes. Then get somewhere they can’t see you.

And what would you tell them to read?

Start with this list:

A. Sabbath’s Theater by Philip Roth

B. Blood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy

C. The Notebooks of Malte Laurids Brigge

D. To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf

If you liked A, you should immediately go back and read E. Philip Roth’s first book, Goodbye, Columbus. Or if you want more ranting, read something by Thomas Bernhard.

If you liked B, go ahead and read F. Moby Dick. If you get bored, take a break to read something by Nathaniel Hawthorne and reflect on how much braver and crazier his young friend Melville was.

If you liked C., you should order a book called G. Randall Jarrell’s Book of Stories. A summer spent following up on the authors anthologized in that book would be possibly the most wonderful summer of reading ever. In fact I should do this, this summer.

If you liked D., try H. Lolita.

Now:

If you liked E., excellent, but you should now take a break from Roth. You could make yourself a feast of American classics in a similar vein: The Great Gatsby (iconic), My Ántonia (more sweeping), Revolutionary Road (more suburban), Rabbit, Run (more comic), A Sport and a Pastime (more erotic). But what you should actually do is try Pride and Prejudice, if you’ve never read it before. Don’t keep going if you don’t like it: save it for later, when you’re smarter. But if you do love Pride and Prejudice, you should seize on this, and take advantage of this summer to anchor yourself in 19th century fiction.  You could even read War and Peace. Or a bunch more Austen.

If you finished F. and were happy with it, maybe take a break with some H. P. Lovecraft. But you should probably go for Dead Souls by Gogol. Or if this all getting too dank, go read some philosophy. But then come back.

If you liked H., you’re good at paying attention. Try Madame Bovary. If you want, you can use Nabokov’s own Lectures on Literature as a guide to that book. But don’t take Nabokov too seriously.

Or:

If you get burnt out on novels, read Nietzsche. If you want to read poetry, buy Michael Schmidt’s Lives of the Poets and use it like a menu.

Plot out for us your ideal cross-country road trip. 

Most times you think you have to start out on one coast, and cross. But what if you started in the middle? The quickest way to get out of Tulsa into something freer is to cross north into Kansas and go straight through the flat middle of the state, with yellow sunflower plantations to the side. I’d go like an arrow. Eventually the Rockies show up, like a backdrop on the horizon. The grass stops, the earth turns gray, and begins to undulate like something out of Cormac McCarthy. Denver is surprisingly civilized. Done in Denver, I’d head south, nervously avoiding the Rockies. New Mexico smells good.  But through some feeble inturning instinct, I’d bear eastward down into Texas and drive back around underneath Oklahoma. In the deserts of West Texas I’d feel some good innerness consolidating—like I was really learning something on my roadtrip. But when I ended up in lush New Orleans I’d suddenly doubt it all again, I’d feel incommensurate to the jazziness and friendliness of that city. I’d wonder if I should have gone to Mexico, after all. But continuing, holding my breath through the Flannery O’Connor stories of Mississippi and Alabama, I’d forget some things, and relax a little bit. I’d apply myself to Florida and try to be an earnest, open-minded pop connoisseur. The sort of person who writes dissertations about Disney. But I’d edge away from the Atlantic coast. I’d still be nervous. Something seriously tropical in the air would help me forget about Disney. I’d pick up that sick inturning feeling I get, always. My stomach would sail uncomfortably weightless over the bridges between the keys. I’d sell my car for food. I’d end up in Key West.

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TO MEET · 09/25/2013

Camp Wandawega

Only two hours outside of Chicago and Camp Wandawega feels like a world away. With a trip there, you’ll trade skyscrapers for a sprawling 25 acres of land. You’ll swap the enormous Lake Michigan for Lake Wandawega, equipped with a fishing dock, swimming dock and rope swing.
“We hope people visit to to revisit the …

Only two hours outside of Chicago and Camp Wandawega feels like a world away. With a trip there, you’ll trade skyscrapers for a sprawling 25 acres of land. You’ll swap the enormous Lake Michigan for Lake Wandawega, equipped with a fishing dock, swimming dock and rope swing.

“We hope people visit to to revisit the simple pleasures of a simpler time,” owner Tereasa Surratt told us.

“We like to remind folks that we are not new, and not improved,” Tereasa explained of the camp, “This is the same place in almost every way that is was back during prohibition.” Low maintenance folks tend to have the best time—it’s best to embrace that you’re essentially camping indoors. Plus, the doors are never locked and racoons know no boundaries.

She and her husband David purchased the property nearly a decade ago. “It was David’s childhood Latvian summer camp,” Tereasa told us. “It became abandoned so we decided to buy it and rescue it.”

And while it was rescued, not much was changed. Many of the items that make up the decor (canoe paddles, vintage thermoses and lamps) were there to begin with. In the years of owning it, Tereasa and David have continually uncovered new treasures, and built upon every little collection with thrift store finds.

Their aesthetic, Tereasa says, is like “a more authentic Moonrise Kingdom.” It’s how most people sum it up, even though they opened the camp about eight years prior to the movie.

Her favorite piece of decor? A chandelier that they cobbled together using antler sheds found on their 25 acres of land and fixing wire.

Tereasa is wearing the Marshall in Rum Cherry

Photos by Collin Hughes

 

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TO MEET · 09/24/2013

Artist in Residence: Nikki Lane

Following Sophie and Teddy, Nikki Lane is the latest musician in our Artists in Residence series.

The Nashville resident came across her career path a bit later in the game—while running the denim bar at Fred Segal in Los Angeles—thanks to a scrap with her boyfriend at the time. “I made a record to …

Following Sophie and Teddy, Nikki Lane is the latest musician in our Artists in Residence series.

The Nashville resident came across her career path a bit later in the game—while running the denim bar at Fred Segal in Los Angeles—thanks to a scrap with her boyfriend at the time. “I made a record to get even with my boyfriend who was making one too. I wasn’t looking much farther than that, and it clicked when it was paying my bills.”

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So maybe her profession doesn’t have the most romantic beginnings, but Nikki’s been harboring serious musical talent since she was a kid.

“My third grade music teacher, Mrs. Wardlaw, came out of nowhere and said, “You’ve got a pretty good voice. You’re going to join the choir.’ She’s the one that pushed me to where I didn’t have to take voice lessons and taught me how to sing a tune. I’ve got great pitch, and it was only because of this woman.”

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We shipped Nikki off to The Standard Spa, Miami Beach for a week of beachfront living and Art Deco architecture. “I had a claw foot tub on the porch, and I just left water in it and kept hopping in and out.”

Looks like all that leisure paid off: “Retreat is the key to creativity; it just got me in the headspace that allowed me to write.”

Thanks, Nikki!

Photos by Alden Wallace

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TO SEE · 09/23/2013

Musical Rx: Fall 2013 Collection

To celebrate the launch of our Fall Collection, we asked our friend (and renowned music supervisor) Randall Poster to pick a selection of music inspired by the vibrancy of early-sixties America (what a time in musical history!) Below, a soundtrack that trumpets the enthusiasm of that era.

To celebrate the launch of our Fall Collection, we asked our friend (and renowned music supervisor) Randall Poster to pick a selection of music inspired by the vibrancy of early-sixties America (what a time in musical history!) Below, a soundtrack that trumpets the enthusiasm of that era.

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TO MEET · 09/23/2013

The Overserved Society

The first official cocktail mixed by The Overserved Society was the Old Fashion. “Although in a way, it began with an awful gin Gimlet,” co-founder Seth Putnam explained. Blake, the other co-founder, was over at Seth’s place and upon spotting his liquor cabinet, asked what he could whip up. The true answer was “nothing,” but he gave …

The first official cocktail mixed by The Overserved Society was the Old Fashion. “Although in a way, it began with an awful gin Gimlet,” co-founder Seth Putnam explained. Blake, the other co-founder, was over at Seth’s place and upon spotting his liquor cabinet, asked what he could whip up. The true answer was “nothing,” but he gave the Gimlet a shot anyway. It was a complete disaster.“We realized we were woefully inept in the spirits department,” Seth told us, “But it wasn’t until later, when recreated an excellent Esquire recipe for the Old Fashioned, that we realized we might be able to hone our skills rather than regret our lack of them.”

What better audience to use as taste-testers than their close friends? It started with a handful of people in their apartments, but soon they needed space to accommodate upwards of a hundred people. These evenings became the official Overserved Society cocktail parties—held at a new location every time, with a new drink mixed (and just one on the menu).

Most recently, they spent a summer evening in the yard of Bang Bang Pie Shop mixing the Boulevardier—essentially a Negroni, but mixed with whiskey.

For those of us who are also relatively hopeless when it comes to cocktail-mixing, Blake has a few pointers:

First, buy fresh ingredients. “It’s the cornerstone of cocktail-making, much like fit is in menswear. We always use fresh-squeezed fruit juice and garnishes.” he explained, “And no sweet or sour mix under any circumstances, ever.”

And to begin, start buy mixing a few classics, like the Old Fashioned. “Despite its fruity bastardization in recent decades, it’s really just whiskey, sugar, and bitters,” Seth told us. A few other good options are Manhattans, Martinis, and Sours.

They’re setting their sights high for the Overserved parties—perhaps taking them on the road in the future. “Ultimately,” Seth told us, “this whole event is designed around the phenomenal power a good drink has to bring people together.”

Seth is wearing the Baxter in Striped Sassafras and Blake is wearing the Watts in Sugar Maple

Photos by Collin Hughes

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TO READ · 09/20/2013

Books We Love: The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P.

For close-readers of text messages and fans of Edith Wharton alike, Adelle Waldman’s debut novel, The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P., might seem like a custom-written book. It follows the romantic misadventures of Nate, a New York-based young writer and serial heartbreaker. The prose is humane, hilarious, absorbing.
We spoke to Adelle about writing from …

For close-readers of text messages and fans of Edith Wharton alike, Adelle Waldman’s debut novel, The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P., might seem like a custom-written book. It follows the romantic misadventures of Nate, a New York-based young writer and serial heartbreaker. The prose is humane, hilarious, absorbing.

We spoke to Adelle about writing from the perspective of a man, faux pas, and her top five fictional jerks.

You’ve said that you started writing the book from a female perspective and then switched. But your protagonist is so convincing. Did you enlist any male consultants? 

Well, I didn’t start writing this exact book from a woman’s perspective, but I did, at various points, try to write about my experiences dating more directly—which meant from the perspective of a woman. And I never got very far. I think writing from the male point-of-view had a lot of advantages. For one thing, I was able to see the character more objectively because he was so clearly not me. For another, I think it turned out to be a surprisingly effective way of getting at the woman’s experience. The reader is in a lot of ways like the woman who dates Nate—he or she is trying to figure out what to make of him, how much to trust him. And I think that’s one of the hard things about dating a guy like Nate. If he were all bad, he wouldn’t cause women nearly as much pain; it’s because he has good qualities that we come to care about such men.

As for male consultants, yes—while writing the book, I gave chapters to a male writer friend and my husband, who is also a writer (and who was my boyfriend when I started writing the book but has since become my husband).

Thankfully, I’ve been in a relationship for the entire time I spent writing the book so I haven’t had any icky dating experiences since I wrote it.

Any other favorite books written from the point-of-view of a character the opposite gender as the writer?

I love Madame Bovary. I admire Flaubert’s ability to be merciless without ever resorting to caricature or satire, and I think he nails so much of what is petty and vain and vulgar about Madame Bovary without letting us forget that she is also capable of real emotion and feels real pain. Which to me is the human condition in a nutshell: we suck, we are banal, egocentric, self-seeking creatures, and yet we also suffer and deserve sympathy.

I also love Anna Karenina and, jumping ahead a century, Mating by Norman Rush. Recently, I think the novelist Maggie Shipstead did a fantastic job writing from the male perspective in her terrific novel, Seating Arrangements.

Does a young adulthood spent in New York City affect the way one thinks about love?

Several years ago, when I was 29 and single, I spent six months in Baltimore, where I grew up. It hit me that the dynamics between men and women were really different there. There is a certain gender imbalance in cities like New York—and probably L.A. and San Francisco—that influences dating.

In Baltimore, there was a pervasive sense that women were scarce. Men vied for women’s attention, not just in terms of wanting to hookup, but they actually seemed to compete to show themselves to be good boyfriend material. The women I got to know during that period took for granted that they could have fun dating for a while and then, as soon as they decided they were ready, snap their fingers, and find a guy they wanted to get serious with. I think this is similar to how many men feel in New York.

Top five fictional jerks?

Lovelace from Samuel Richardson’s Clarissa. Dashing, handsome and vain—so vain!—he’s the absolute best and worst and most infuriating.

Willoughby from Jane Austen’s Sense and Sensibility. The handsome ladies’ man definitely steals this show—certainly he’s more charismatic than poor Colonel Brandon—even if Elinor essentially nails him at the end of the book.

Tito Melema from George Eliot’s Romola. Nevermind that this book is set in 15th century Florence—this is is one convincingly drawn bad husband, of a sort that is no less familiar today. Melema is smart, charming and doesn’t intend to do harm, but he’s selfish and he mostly just wants to feel good. That’s more than enough to do a whole lot of damage to the people around you.

Gilbert Osmond from Henry James’s Portrait of a Lady. One chilling—and chilly—dude.

Charles Highway, from The Rachel Papers by Martin Amis. This modern-day bad boyfriend has a lot in common with Nate. He’s smart and just awkward and insecure enough to be endearing. He lays it on really thick at first, but then once he’s won the girl, he quickly loses interest. The frightening part is that none of it is insincere. He really is that capable of becoming disenchanted with a woman he adores—as soon as she commits that worst of all possible sins: returning his affection. Amis did a brilliant job capturing this guy.

Please confess your most serious faux pas.

These days I often worry that I’ve been talking about things related to my book too much. I worry my friends will begin to think I’m very self-involved.

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